Wednesday, May 17, 2017

5 THINGS words By Raymond Tyler


Welcome to a new column I am breaking out ...5 Things or Reasons as the grammatical need dictates.
A quick list of who , what and why that I am following or reporting on.

With out a doubt the most important and best decision I made in 2016 is to let Stella Williams make some changes to my fashion and lifestyle choices.

Ms. Williams has over 25 years of experience as a lifestyle and image consultant.
Still, I thought I was doing fine.

The truth is when I look at photos of myself before the summer of 2016 I seriously wonder what I was thinking.

Ladies and ESPECIALLY GENTALMEN...

Here are 5 Things I Learned that changed my life for the better and are reasons why Lifestyles By Stella is the right choice!

NUMBER ONE:  Working With a Consultant and Wardrobe/Fashion is an Investment!

As a DJ. I consult with DJ ILL Nino on 95% or my equipment purchases. WHY? Because his expertise eclipses mine. Also because buying THE RIGHT Speaker or MIC can make all the difference in getting a gig and being asking to come back.



The same is true with fashion. Stella has forgotten more about fashion then I know and what I know she taught me. Working with Stella equals WISE INVESTMENT.

Likewise the money I was trying not to spend on a shirt, jacket or pair of shoes were actually costing me money. Stella put me in a metaphorical head lock and demanded I buy a jacket that is only in style about 4 months out of the year! I was thinking "no way." However, I gave in and I admit I looked great in the jacket but didn't see it as a game changer. I was 100% wrong.


From the first time I stepped out my house in that jacket, clients and people around me took notice. The investment was worth 3 times what I actually paid.

HERE'S WHAT I LEARNED!
THE RIGHT INVESTMENT IN A PIECE OF FASHION CAN AND SHOULD PAY YOU BACK! EVERY FASHION INVESTMENT I HAVE MADE SINCE DOES...

NUMBER TWO: ONLY KEEP YOUR BEST CLOTHES!

HERE'S WHAT I LEARNED: Anything that does not make you look your best or does not excite you?
YOU CAN LIVE WITH OUT!



I have several looks that make me feel like I am LIT every time I step up. Before Stella I would buy one great outfit that I saved for this or that.  And "Schlep" around the rest of the time!After Stella...every outfit is a winner! So whether I am going to DJ for a charity or corporate event or just enjoy a day at the book store...I am weather something that makes me feel like I just won at FASHION!

HERE'S WHAT YOU SHOULD LEARN: YOU DESERVE TO FEEL AMAZING ABOUT YOUR LOOK EVERYDAY!

NUMBER THREE: SHOP WITH PURPOSE
No more "just let me see what they have here."
When I go out now, I am shopping for ...a jacket to fill out my spring summer party season look, shoes that will make a statement, a tie to tie together a business casual look.

The reason why you shop with purpose is to get the things that will add to your look. I too often bought things because they were just on sale or in my size or different.

SHOP WITH PURPOSE BUT STILL STAY TRUE TO YOUR STYLE AND WALLET!

NUMBER FOUR:  INVESTING IN STYLE WILL
NOT WRECK YOUR BUDGET!



Saving a penny like before is a bit harder and you may start with not much you want to wear. However!

You WILL find SHOES, JACKETS, WATCHES you want on sale...but you HAVE TO LOOK!

The very first day Stella and I went out shopping...we went to MEN'S WEARHOUSE for some fittings and our sales person Jeffrey found a great clearance suit that was in my size for a steal!

NUMBER FIVE Should Have Been Number One To Me: PLAN FOR 15 minutes to a HALF HOUR
To PICK YOUR DRESS FOR AN OCCASION!



I used to LAUGH at people that took more than 5 minutes to pick something to wear.
Problem is too many times I looked like I took about 5 minutes!

PLANNING is EVERYTHING!

I may have an idea for weeks about what to wear to an event or a date and when I put it on and look at the image in the mirror...my image is not saying what I want it to. So I go back. I may take down 3 or 4 shirts and match them up with the pants and shoes...till I have an image that says...Raymond Tyler Cares About YOU Enough To Look Professional and Distinctive when He Came To See YOU!

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Stella has also been a great help with LIFESTYLE information as well!

I have learned much more and you will to by investing your time and money with a session with Stella Williams! Find her at Lifestyles By Stella on facebook and Instagram or call her at
609-276-8703

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